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该如何处理这种压力

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  •   oldIron Oct 7, 2018 4374 views
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    可能是跟老大比较聊得来,加上是同一所大学毕业的。 入职半年以来,老大一直拿我跟高级开发做比较,而我是一只处于中级水平的菜鸡(毕业三年)。 老大也私底下跟我谈过,他说对我的期望还是比较高的,要向公司里的高级看齐。 前个月由于我的疏忽,老大还替我挡了一枪,挨了大 Boss 的批评。虽然老大是为了我好,但这给我造成了一定的压力,就像小时候生怕辜负父母的那种感觉......

    15 replies    2018-10-08 00:27:08 +08:00
    stzz
        1
    stzz  
       Oct 7, 2018 via Android   1
    工资看齐没
    easylee
        2
    easylee  
       Oct 7, 2018 via Android   2
    人确实要向上走,有人带是一件幸运的事情。

    更重要的这个过程中得时刻看清自己,不要迷失,否则得不偿失。
    ghhardy
        3
    ghhardy  
       Oct 7, 2018 via Android
    每个人都有很大潜力的,努力成为更优秀的自己吧
    ChenJHua
        4
    ChenJHua  
       Oct 7, 2018 via iPhone
    我也压力很大,我一个小实习,十年架构师大佬很看重我,让我两年超过他,我听起来就害怕
    V2FullStack
        5
    V2FullStack  
       Oct 7, 2018
    挺羡慕的
    mawenjie
        6
    mawenjie  
       Oct 7, 2018
    这样不是挺好吗
    HuHui
        7
    HuHui  
       Oct 7, 2018 via Android   1
    有人带比自个儿摸索好
    linghutf
        8
    linghutf  
       Oct 7, 2018
    每个人激发创造力的方式是不一样的,然而很多人认为有压力才有动力,这也是造成许多悲剧的原因。
    Cbdy
        9
    Cbdy  
       Oct 7, 2018
    及时沟通,不要大恩成仇
    chiu
        10
    chiu  
       Oct 7, 2018
    意识机会,把握机会
    abusizhishen
        11
    abusizhishen  
       Oct 7, 2018 via Android
    那就努力使自己变强,不要辜负
    abusizhishen
        12
    abusizhishen  
       Oct 7, 2018 via Android
    @ChenJHua 哈哈哈,两年
    ChenJHua
        13
    ChenJHua  
       Oct 7, 2018 via iPhone
    @abusizhishen 亚历山大啊,老大分任务,说给我四天,架构师说这么简单给我两天就可以了,吓得我话都不敢说
    zhangZMZ
        14
    zhangZMZ  
       Oct 7, 2018
    1 楼好评!!!!!!
    abusizhishen
        15
    abusizhishen  
       Oct 8, 2018 via Android
    @ChenJHua 有问题多找架构师,让他知道知识得慢慢积累,你还有很多东西要学习,这样他清楚了你现在的能力,以后可能多给你点时间。
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